SHALOM BAYIS SERIES – 24: How to Deal with Source Problems
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by Rabbi Nachum Chaimowitz
By keeping open and healthy communication lines, and by being aware of certain intrinsic differences that exist between the needs of men and women, we now have B’ezras Hashem valuable tools to bridge the gaps when they surface, and to thus be zoche to the most Endeared Quality Unto Hashem: Shalom Bayis.
If there ever are source problems that arise, chas v’shalom, make sure to seek advice from spiritual and professional guidance sources what sooner.
It is also important not to involve too many other people. It is best to receive guidance from only one or two other sources. Experience has proven, that when there are more people involved, the more place there is for confusion to set in, chas v’shalom.
By seeking guidance what sooner, and by not publicizing their personal issues and challenges, a couple thus gives themselves the best chance possible to work through their issues – even though they may seem overwhelmingly deep. Even at times when it may seem close to impossible, if a couple guards their private information appropriately and they gear it only toward those individuals who are equipped to deal with the situation in a professional way, they then give themselves the best chance possible to merit the ability to bridge their gaps, and to ultimately achieve for themselves Shalom Bayis.
L’Iluy Nishmas Chaya Miriam bas Zev Halevi a"h
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